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Multiply Wives

The Bible warns the king of Israel not to "multiply wives:"



  • “Thou shalt in any wise set him king over thee, whom the LORD thy God shall choose: one from among thy brethren shalt thou set king over thee: thou mayest not set a stranger over thee, which is not thy brother.
  • “But he shall not multiply horses to himself, nor cause the people to return to Egypt, to the end that he should multiply horses: forasmuch as the LORD hath said unto you, Ye shall henceforth return no more that way.
  • “Neither shall he multiply wives to himself, that his heart turn not away: neither shall he greatly multiply to himself silver and gold.”


  • (Deuteronomy 17:15-17)






The Angel Standing in the Sun, by Joseph Mallord William Turner


As should be apparent, this injunction was honored in the breach; Solomon multiplied wives, and indeed his heart was turned away from the living God:



  • “But king Solomon loved many strange women, together with the daughter of Pharaoh, women of the Moabites, Ammonites, Edomites, Zidonians, and Hittites;
  • “Of the nations concerning which the LORD said unto the children of Israel, Ye shall not go in to them, neither shall they come in unto you: for surely they will turn away your heart after their gods: Solomon clave unto these in love.
  • “And he had seven hundred wives, princesses, and three hundred concubines: and his wives turned away his heart.”


  • (1 Kings 11:1-3).






Some readers perform an interpretive hand-stand of deducing what the law forbidding to 'multiply wives' can have meant, from Solomon's performance. But this is backwards: the law says what it says. Is it not possible Solomon simply flouted it?:

"Lev. Rab. 19: 2. R. Simeon taught:
"The Book of Deuteronomy ascended and prostrated itself before the Holy One, blessed be He, saying to Him: “Lord of the Universe, Solomon has uprooted me and made of me an invalid document, since a document out of which two or three points are void is entirely void, and King Solomon sought to uproot the letter yod out of me:. . .it is written, ‘Neither shall he multiply wives to himself’ and he has multiplied wives to himself;. . .The Holy One, blessed be He, answered: “Go! Solomon will be eliminated and a hundred like him, but not even a single yod that is in thee shall ever be made void.”
(quoted it, Young, Brad H. (1995-09-01). Paul the Jewish Theologian: A Pharisee among Christians, Jews, and Gentiles (Kindle Locations 3355-3362). Baker Book Group. Kindle Edition.)

Other Bible-readers also have perceived a gap between theory and practice:

"The Shoddy-Wall-Builders who went after Precept — Precept is a Raver of whom it says, 'they shall surely rave' (Mic. 2:6) — they are caught in two traps: fornication, by taking two wives in their lifetimes although the principle of creation is 'male and female He created them' (Gen. 1:27) and those who went into the ark 'went into the ark two by two' (Gen. 7:9). Concerning the Leader it is written 'he shall not multiply wives to himself (Deut. 17:17). . ." (The Damascus Document, The Dead Sea Scrolls, Michael Wise, Martin Abegg, Jr., & Edward Cook, p. 55)

The "Shoddy-Wall-Builder," i.e. the Pharisees, are simply wrong on this point of law. Some see an explicit permission for polygamy given in Deuteronomy 21:15:



  • “If a man have two wives, one beloved, and another hated, and they have born him children, both the beloved and the hated; and if the firstborn son be hers that was hated:
  • “Then it shall be, when he maketh his sons to inherit that which he hath, that he may not make the son of the beloved firstborn before the son of the hated, which is indeed the firstborn:
  • “But he shall acknowledge the son of the hated for the firstborn, by giving him a double portion of all that he hath: for he is the beginning of his strength; the right of the firstborn is his.”


  • (Deuteronomy 21:15-17)



It is not stated, nor clear, whether any divorce has intervened; it would be understandable if the "hated" wife were divorced, and also understandable why the man would be more devoted to his current family and more inclined to favor them. Divorce was explicitly permitted by Moses. However, it might also be a case of polygamy. Like all other law codes, the law of Moses posits the existence of all manner of conditions, without necessarily endorsing them, such as robbery, murder, rape, and slavery. However since the discussion indicates no punishment for the circumstance of having "two wives," the rabbis long perceived that the law permits polygamy. King Herod the Great had up to ten wives, though not all at the same time, given his penchant for executing them: "She also frequently reproached Herod’s sister and wives with the ignobility of their descent. . .Now those wives of his were not a few; it being of old permitted to the Jews to marry many wives, and this king delighting in many; all which hated Alexander, on account of Glaphyra’s boasting and reproaches." (Flavius Josephus, The Wars of the Jews, Book I, Chapter 24, Section 2, p. 1365). Josephus elsewhere remarks, ". . .for it is the ancient practice among us to have many wives at the same time." (Flavius Josephus, Antiquities of the Jews, Book XVII, Chapter 1, Section 2, p. 1058). And certainly, from the time of the patriarchs, this had been common practice.




This practice was not compatible with Jesus' teaching on marriage, which severely restricts even divorce:

"The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause? And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder." (Matthew 19:3-6).

The thought that this new teaching could co-exist happily with polygamy would leave a situation where a divorced man who remarries is an adulterer: "And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery." (Matthew 19:9). . .but not the man who keeps both in the stable. This would be odd indeed, because it would make the divorce the sole cause of the adultery. In other words, a man could have two wives, and divorce the first. If he then remarried, he would be an adulterer with the new wife, but not with the remaining one of the first pair. To get around the Lord's teaching, the man would need only to postpone the divorce until he had finalized the remarriage, and then he's in the clear. This would a bizarre outcome, however.

In spite of the impossibility of reconciling polygamy with the Lord's directives on marriage, certain enthusiasts have squared that circle, including the designers of the Munster Commune, who instituted a communist theocracy which included the practice of polygamy. The practice of the patriarchs, who were God's friends, was taken to overrule the Lord's own teaching of His people. Truly the Munster Communards cannot be accused of exaggerating the 'Red Letter' words of the Bible. Joseph Smith was another who preferred the patriarchs' practice on this matter to New Testament teaching. It seems may have been a sociological reason: from the start, more women than men were willing to believe in his prophetic vocation, so the Mormon community was unbalanced by gender. It also seems that this roguish fellow, who searched for buried treasure by gazing at peep-stones in his hat, liked to seize an opportunity when he saw one, and a community who hung upon his every word as the very words of God were ripe for plucking.

The patriarchs were saved, not by works, but by faith: "And he believed in the LORD; and he counted it to him for righteousness." (Genesis 15:6). Taking men whose lives were not exemplary as exemplars, while having heard and discarded clear teaching to the contrary, does not show faith but unbelief.

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Mohammed ibn Abdallah

This personage, who is sometimes, for instance by Dante Alighieri, considered as a Christian schismatic, allowed the faithful up to four wives. He allowed himself quite a few more than that. This same personage expresses mystification at those among the faithful who scruple to do that which he did, which plainly is allowed given his near familiarity with God's commands:

"Narrated 'Aisha:
"The Prophet did something as it was allowed from the religious point of view but some people refrained from it. When the Prophet heard of that, he, after glorifying and praising Allah, said, 'Why do some people refrain from doing something which I do? By Allah, I know Allah more than they.'" (Sahih Bukhari Volume 9, Book 92, Number 404).

Go figure.

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Molnar, The Patriarch Abraham


Munster Communards

The situation of the German town of Munster, as it developed during the radical Reformation, was very nearly akin to Jim Jones' Jonestown, with crazy people running the show. For a time polygamy was not only permitted but mandatory for the inhabitants of this coercive socialist utopia. Upon making polygamy mandatory, the Munster communards found themselves obliged also to criminalize 'quarreling,' because one half the human race did not take naturally to polygamy and fell to quarreling, which was made a capital crime. Rather ominously, this same group also did away with money, as Pol Pot would later do:

"'For not only have we put all our belongings into a common pool under the care of deacons, and live from it according to our need; we praise God through Christ with one heart and mind and are eager to help one another with every kind of service. And accordingly, everything which has served the purposes of self-seeking and private property, such as buying and selling, working for money, taking interest and practicing usury … or eating and drinking the sweat of the poor … and indeed everything which offends us against love – all such things are abolished amongst us by the power of love and community.'" (Anabaptist pamphlet sent in October 1534, quoted in Murray N. Rothbard, 'Messianic Communism in the Protestant Reformation,' an except available on LewRockwell.com).

As Libertarian Murray Rothbard insightfully notices, the elimination of private property did not yield an egalitarian society, but ensured only that the ruling elite controlled all the wealth. Polygamy turned out to be more popular with the male segment of the population than with the female, quelle surprise. It is difficult to fathom how the Munster Communards derived their coercive wealth-sharing from a New Testament pattern which is plainly described as non-coercive: "While it remained, was it not thine own? and after it was sold, was it not in thine own power?" (Acts 5:4), nor how they justified a reign of terror in the name of love, nor how they saw fit to impose upon new covenant believers a system not compatible with Jesus' marriage teaching, and which was never mandatory even upon those patriarchs who practiced it, nor anywhere commended even in the Old Testament, rather, "Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well. . .Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth." (Proverb 5:15-18).

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Polygamous Bishops?

Some people think they find permission for polygamy in an unexpected place, Paul's teaching on the marital status of bishops:

"A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach..." (1 Timothy 3:2).
"For this cause left I thee in Crete, that thou shouldest set in order the things that are wanting, and ordain elders in every city, as I had appointed thee: If any be blameless, the husband of one wife, having faithful children not accused of riot or unruly." (Titus 1:5-6).

'Elders' and 'bishops' are the same office in the New Testament, though they would later be pryed apart into a hierarchy. Some people explain these verses by saying that, because there were so many Christian men in the church who had multiple wives (polygamy, they say, being very common in those days), Paul wants elders selected from that subset of men in the church who had only one wife at the moment. They say this verse has nothing to do with divorce, only polygamy. There were in fact places in the world where polygamists could be found: Persia, then governed by Parthia, even Palestine, where Herod the Great had married, and murdered, multiple wives, India, and many other far-flung places. The Greeks and Romans were aware of these customs:

"It is a Median custom to select the bravest person as king, but this does not generally prevail, being confined to the mountain tribes. The custom for the kings to have many wives is more general, it is found among all the mountaineers also, but they are not permitted to have less than five. In the same manner the women think it honorable for husbands to have as many wives as possible, and esteem it a misfortune if they have less than five." (Strabo, Geography, Book XI, Chapter XIII, Section 11, p. 266)

Geographer Pomponius Mela describes African nomads who practice polygamy:

"Although, being scattered all over in family groups and without law, they take no common counsel, still, because individual men have several wives and for that reason more children than usual (both those eligible to receive an inheritance and those not eligible), they are never few in number." (Pomponius Mela, Description of the World, Book 1, Section 42, p. 47).

But Paul didn't go to any of those places to preach! The places he went, and where Timothy and Titus were likely to go, practiced monogamy and had done so for a long time. There was no room in Roman law, which held sway over a considerable chunk of the globe, for multiple wives, though divorce was permitted. Some parts of the empire, including Palestine, were allowed to retain their own laws, but the Romans were proud of their laws and imposed them wherever possible. Paul's category: "the husband of one wife," would have struck his readers as a novelty, though the inverse category: 'the wife of one husband,' was familiar to them. The 'univira,' or wife of one husband, was an honored figure at Roman weddings. She was not a woman who was married to only one man at the moment, but a woman who had been married to only one man, cumulatively:

"Women who had been content with a single marriage used to be honored with a crown of chastity. For they thought that the mind of a married woman was particularly loyal and uncorrupted if it knew not how to leave the bed on which she had surrendered her virginity, believing that trial of many marriages was as it were the sign of a legalized incontinence." (Valerius Maximus, 'Memorable Doings and Sayings,' Book II.1).

Though in the first century, divorce was common in the Roman empire, and indeed every kind of sexual immorality (as in our own day), Romans remembered the early years of their Republic in an idealized way as the home on earth of marital fidelity:

"From the founding of the city [Rome] down to its five hundred and twentieth year there was no case of divorce between man and wife. Sp. Carvilius was the first to put his wife away for cause of barrenness. Although he was thought to have a tolerable reason for so doing, he did not escape criticism, because they considered that even desire for children ought not to have been placed ahead of conjugal loyalty." (Valerius Maximus, 'Memorable Doings and Sayings,' Book II.1).

Neither was monogamy a new idea introduced by Rome in the Greek-speaking areas where Paul spread the gospels. Athenian law for the most part, with the exception of a period when war had depopulated the city, allowed a man to register as a citizen-son only the offspring of his marriage with a free-born citizen wife: "For this is what living with a woman as one's wife means—to have children by her and to introduce the sons to the members of the clan and of the deme, and to betroth the daughters to husbands as one's own." (Demosthenes, LIX, Against Neaera, Section 122). Any other offspring he might have with any other woman was, not a citizen, but an illegitimate child deprived of civil rights. Consequently, a man had only one lawful wife at a time. Divorce was allowed, but not multiple concurrent wives.

Sometimes people slide into this interpretation with the best of intentions. Their beloved pastor gets divorced, through no fault of his own (it's always through no fault of his own). Paul's instructions do not specifically exclude a divorced man, but only remarriage. But then the lonely pastor gets remarried. These people ought to say, 'We are making a compassionate exception in this case rather than obeying Paul's instructions to the letter,' before they start off down a journey of fantasy anthropology. Polygamy would not have been common in Paul's Greek-speaking churches. 

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Demographics

Roughly the same number of baby boys as baby girls are born, absent sex-selection abortion. If a 'prophet' proclaims, as Joseph Smith once did, that a man must have three wives to enjoy celestial exaltation, then where are the extra females to be found? Are there three times more women than men? Nature herself counsels monogamy! What happens then, inevitably, is relentless downward pressure on the age of first marriage of the female half of humanity. Mohammed ibn Abdallah and Joseph Smith, great exponents of polygamy, both found themselves marrying very young girls, and the modern Mormon fundamentalists who get into trouble with the law on this account are simply following their well-worn and indeed inevitable trail. At first Mormon polygamy was a closely-held secret, with only the leadership indulging in the practice, which they indignantly denied before their own strait-laced rank and file. But then the cat was out of the bag. . .and younger and younger girls were deemed marriagable:

"Mormon men started taking on wives at a frantic rate. Apostle Wilford Woodruff observed in 1856, 'All are trying to get wives, until there is hardly a girl fourteen years old in Utah, but what is married, or is just going to be.'" (Jon Krakauer, Under the Banner of Heaven, p. 206).
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The Rabbis

The Rabbis permitted a man to marry up to eighteen wives, more even that Mohammed ibn Abdallah allowed:

"MISHNAH. NEITHER SHALL HE MULTIPLY WIVES TO HIMSELF. — ONLY EIGHTEEN. R. JUDAH SAID: HE MAY HAVE MORE, PROVIDED THEY DO NOT TURN AWAY HIS HEART." (Babylonian Talmud, Tractate Sanhedrin, 21a.)

In this as in other points, they were far from the heart of God. Rabbi Jesus' teaching, and they twain shall be one flesh, leaves no room for the superfluous seventeen:

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